“It’s ok my darling. I know the world can feel scary, but that doesn’t mean you need to close your heart or stop living. Here are some tricks I know:
- The jam jar: whenever you feel like someone is threatening you and your boundaries, imagine energetically putting yourself in a jam jar that you can see out of, but no one can penetrate
- Learn the wheel of consent earlier: it will help you find and locate your own domain
- Don’t always assume it is your fault: let others hold their own 💩, and accept sometimes people just do 💩 things: that doesn’t make you a bad person.
- Realise you don’t need to know your answers right away: get comfortable with the tension.
- Say no! Tell people to F off sometimes!
- And if you need to cry, to rage, to be disgusted… Just do it! You don’t have to be nice to everyone.
- You get to decide: you get to go out there and decide on who you want to hang out with, what you want to create, what you do and don’t have time for.
- Start listening. Take yourself out of the messy situations where your inner wisdom is shouting and screaming at you to leave: just do it! Listen to your inner knowing!”
The Glass Ceiling We Build Ourselves
Last love letter, we celebrated the glass ceilings you have broken through, so with this New Moon in Sagittarius, I wanted to build on our last journal journey…
To invite you to think back to when you first decided that taking up space wasn’t safe… and to write to that 13/11/9/5 (etc) year-old you, and speak to them lovingly from your highest self: the you of your Land of Plenty!
And then blast through those glass ceilings and FLY unlimited towards December (especially because Wicked 2 is out in the cinemas in the UK & US tomorrow!!!)(unfortunately not in Germany though!) I’d love to hear what you would tell your younger self and hear your big dreams…
Your New Moon Journal to JOY Invitations: What if the biggest glass ceiling is the one you’ve built inside yourself?
Grab your Journal to JOY and reflect forwards and backwards:
Looking Back:
When did you first learn to make yourself small?
What would you tell your younger self?
Where have you been saying “yes” when you mean “no”?
Looking Forward:
What glass ceiling are you ready to break in 2026?
If you trusted your intuition completely, what would you create?
How would you take up space differently?
Sagittarius (and Elphaba) ask us to aim higher than we think possible: Not to prove anything, but because our younger self deserves to see us fully expressed…
And then perhaps with this New Moon, you can do a little embodiment practice to take up your space, because your intuition knows what wants to be created and embodied!
Trust it. Aim high. Take up your space!
Join the Magic:
✨ 23rd November: The JOY Hour I’m excited to share these conversations with beautiful and brave souls who have remembered that when they put joy at the heart of their art, their business, and their life, everything transforms. The JOY hour: my new podcast launches with an interview with the wonderful Alex Harvey on Sunday 23rd November!
🎁 The Bridge Between Worlds: 14 Day Challenge Ready to complete 2025 and set powerful intentions for 2026? Join me for 14 days of ritual, reflection, and course-correction between 23rd December – 6th January 2026, (when the veil is thinnest and your intuition is most on point!)
🌴 3rd-8th March 2026: Yucatán Retreat Sacred medicine ceremonies, embodied alchemy, and creative rebirth in the sacral chakra of Mother Earth. Early bird pricing until December 31st 2025 (Get £400 off!).
What would happen if you gave yourself full permission to take up the space required to make your vision real?
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